I used to smoke a lot during my late teens early 20s but I never got into drinking and still don’t drink at all. I’ve only had bad experiences with alcohol TBH. Either babysitting drunk friends or having a terrible time myself.
I’d say pretty much everyone in my social circle during those years was into smoking, and I guess it was a turn off for the more sober individuals who knew me (I don’t consume weed like that anymore and I’ve reconnected with these sober friends over the past few years and we have a lot more in common now, like education, work, videogames, hobbies, etc)
Around 21/22 I realized weed was just holding me back from my potential, even though it did make doing outdoorsy activities like hiking and skating more fun, as well as listening to music and watching movies. Eventually I cut off most of my stoner friends (not in a harsh way, just stopped hitting them up for weed and stuff, we’re still friends and on good terms) and started taking college more seriously, picked up music production/making beats as a hobby after lazily playing guitar for a decade, and life overall just got a lot more clear and focused.
I still do occasionally eat an edible when vacationing or at a concert or something, but it’s rare and usually a well deserved treat. I think CBD and very low doses of THC for daily use is fine for the most part. I still love it and think it can be used a medicine. I just don’t like the “DUDE BRO 420” party culture that surrounds weed, which is basically a psychedelic and should be treated with more respect.